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In my previous article, I covered some of the general points regarding your online dating profile photo. In this article, I would like to give you some more specific tips and pointers regarding your profile photo. So let’s get straight to the pointers.

• Don’t ever put up a picture in which you have cut out another person. If this really is the only picture you’ve got, or some outdated photo from your past, you need to modernize.
• If you post a picture of yourself in a compromising position, it’s going to cause you to appear less than ideal. If you wish to look like that, or perhaps appeal to that kind of individual, there are many other websites for that kind of thing. Most dating sites cater to people who are looking for romance or serious relationships. If you are looking for a “hookup,” you should probably try an adult dating site.
• Women: if you are searching for a one night stand then a photograph showing plenty of cleavage may well get the job done, but normally it is best to exhibit a good physique in a more understated way. Guys: a cap screams “I’m concealing my thinning hair,” so keep that in your mind.
• Find a great photo of you performing one of your favorite activities or perhaps while in front of a well known landmark. As long as the picture is distinct and current, use as much imagination as you like.
• People like to see what a person looks like so try a current picture of yourself. Do not use a photograph from your graduation a decade ago.
• Photographs displaying natural views of you, or photos with you exhibiting your personality, such as pictures in which you are smiling broadly, are generally favored. Avoid using photos cropped from larger ones. If possible, post a photo of yourself with an attractive friend or friends. It shows that you are sociable and self-assured around others.
• Ask a friend for advice if you’re not sure if the photograph looks good. A good friend will give you an honest, objective opinion.
• Single ladies need to see an accurate representation of what you look like. If you have digitally improved your picture in order to touch up a number of gray hairs or airbrushed your freckles, your first date could be your last.

You should always keep in mind that your online profile photos are the most important part of your profile. Women will read your profile, but they look at the picture first, and if there is no picture, or if the picture doesn’t appeal to them in some way, they will move on to the next profile.

I have more to say about online dating profile photos, so be sure to check out my next article. Also, if you’re looking for more advice about your online dating profile, read my articles on profile essays and headlines.

Creating your online dating profile is a detail frequently forgotten by online daters. You sign up for an online dating service, and then you just forget all about it. Nobody interacts with you and you simply stop trying.

Do your online dating profile photos best represent you? Do you even have photos uploaded? You may not look like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, but that’s not grounds to use poor quality photos. The first thing other members are going to see is your picture.

There is so much competition in the modern online dating world that you usually have just a few seconds to capture your prospective mate’s interest as they search through the website. If you want to catch the eye of that potential mate, you will have to have a good headline and a good photo on your online dating profile. It can’t be just any old photo. It has to be a good photo that represents you well.

Usually the first thing that one sees is the profile photo, the name, the headline and a small amount of personal details. The importance of the profile photo cannot be overstated. I can assure you that if you don’t have an online dating profile photo, you will be disappointed in the number of responses you get.

It is a fact that people prefer to read online dating profiles belonging to those who have fascinating photos and will make contact with those people far more often. Don’t lose the opportunity of finding a mate just because you’re too lazy to post a photo on your online dating profile.

Dating site members who upload a photo get contacted up to 20 times more than singles without one. Use a clear photo that has been taken recently. Many online dating services give you the option of uploading several photographs. Always take advantage of this opportunity and upload your best recent photos that show you in different poses.

No matter how well you’ve written your online dating profile, having good photos will make sure more matches click through to your profile, give you winks, respond to your messages, and ultimately date you.

On the other hand, a good profile photo alone won’t do it all for you, and here’s why. The meat of your online dating profile is the “about me“  or the essay section, which is called various things on different dating sites. Regardless of its name, the majority of online dating websites will require a paragraph or two from you in essay format, expounding on who you are as well as exactly what you are searching for. The most important thing you need to remember to get your online dating profile noticed is pictures, but to hold your prospective mates attention, you must have an interesting profile essay.

Your online dating profile is virtually the same as you walking into a singles club. Would you go there looking less than your best? If not, then why would you not include your best photos in your profile?

Be sure to read my articles about online dating profile headlines, essays, and more about your online dating profile photos.